If someone could invent a garden lawn that was always perfect, never needed mowing and was weed free there is a strong chance that they would be onto a winner. Meanwhile, those of us with gardens must do the best we can with grass seed, mower and various kinds of weed killers, organic or, perish the thought, otherwise. At this time of year, along with the grass other, less welcome things grow like daisies, buttercups and dandelions.
Which reminds me of a story of a man who had a beautiful lawn except that Dandelions persisted in growing to spoil the effect. He tried rooting them out but they kept coming back. He tried weedkiller but that only worked for a time. Finally he wrote, in despair, to the Department of Agriculture (or DEFRA, as it would now be) and he told them all that he had tried to do to eradicate the Dandelion, ending his letter with the question: “What shall I do now?” In due course he received their reply.“We suggest that you learn to love them.”
For those who want a perfect lawn that’s probably a hard thing to do but actually, the Dandelion is quite a lovely flower. It’s just that it is an unwelcome visitor to our garden. We don’t mind so much when it grows in the hedgerows or by a woodland path or on waste ground but we don’t want it in our gardens. God, however, seems to have a different idea. He seems to love that sunshine flower we would perhaps prefer to eradicate. There’s no accounting for taste – especially divine taste and God does seem to love a lot of things that we might prefer to reject.
There’s a lesson there for us all to learn.
Meanwhile, I confess that I love Dandelions. They are always welcome in my garden. They brighten the early Spring and they are a wonder to behold. Maybe if we didn’t take them for granted or, worse, wage war on them, we might appreciate the intricate sun flower in all its bright array. The golden dandelion, with its intricate and gorgeous leaf formation will still be bringing bright joy to otherwise dull verges, hedgerows, fields, wastelands, and almost anywhere, whatever we feel about them
We should indeed learn to love them, though I am not expecting total agreement about that!
Meanwhile, here’s a little poem by Sister Donna Butler of the Sister of Providence
Unwelcomed Save by children, Dandelion, I declare you Patron flower Of prophets.
Who would believe such power Lies within the beauty of your soft Geometric fluff Poised to take a ride on the wind and land in Uninvited places?
And so we come to the morning of the third day and the third part of our unfolding story.
On Friday we witnessed the horrors and anguish of Jesus’ trial and sentence; the violence and agony of the cross and the very human sense of desolation and abandonment that Jesus experiences as he hangs there. And yet, in the midst of the torture, Jesus is still seeking to heal and forgive; still promising hope, relief and restoration as he speaks of Paradise to the repentant thief; still thinking of his friends and followers as he entrusts Mary, his mother and John to each other – creating new ties and bonds: new families. And then, as the agony intensifies, all else drops away and he is held in the eye of the pain and yields all to his Father – ‘it is finished, it is done’ he cries as he commends himself to his Father and gives up his spirit.
And why? Because of the fathomless, bottomless depth of his and his Father’s love for humankind and for the world. The intensity of the agony he goes through only speaks of the sheer intensity of the love that held him there for us.
And then that day of limbo – at least for the disciples and to some extent for us. Holy Saturday: that in-between day of waiting. For Jesus’ friends and followers a day of enforced inaction as they mark the Sabbath. But for Jesus, a day when he descends into Hell to do battle with Death. And a day too, when, as Bishop Jack Nicholls always says, ‘he is looking for his friend, Judas’.
And so we come to the morning of the third day. I love this resurrection story. I love it because it is touching and personal: Mary’s journey from empty despair to bewilderment to joy and excitement. I love it for the setting and the imagery: we begin in the darkness, early in the morning, the light is grey and colourless and there’s a chill in the air. Had Jesus’ friends and disciples spent the Sabbath together? Or had they all dispersed to different houses? Whichever way, unable to do anything to distract themselves, they’d had hours with their thoughts. Quite possibly they’d forced themselves through the celebration of Passover – the food ashen in their mouths as they dwelt on what they’d witnessed – or avoided – at Calvary.
And now, Mary creeps out, in the twilight, desperate to be with her friend and teacher. Desperate to do the last kindnesses to prepare Jesus’ body properly. She steals into the garden, threading her way through the graves to find the tomb where she saw him laid two nights before. And there, she finds the great stone that sealed the tomb rolled away. You can just feel that icy rush of dread as she sees this – confused thoughts rushing through her mind and rising panic that his body has been stolen. And then she’s rushing headlong back to find Peter, to tell him and John what she’s seen, hoping that there might be some explanation.
When they’ve heard what she has to say, they run to the tomb and find it empty – and some sort of realisation comes to them (not that they appear to share this with Mary). But where John and Peter simply see the folded graveclothes, Mary is given more: for once they are gone, she gets to meet the Risen Jesus. I love the detail here: it’s as if Jesus has planned it out carefully and roped in the angels to play along. As Mary looks into the tomb and sees the two of them, they ask (all innocent and butter wouldn’t melt) ‘Why are you weeping?’ and when she has explained, she turns and there’s Jesus, standing at the entrance to the tomb, ready to surprise her. He too plays along a little – ‘Why are you weeping? Who are you looking for?’ he asks. And still she doesn’t recognise him – is this because of her tears? Or is it that he is somehow transformed – that he looks different? Or maybe the possibility of his being alive is just too much to compute…
And then there’s that moment. That moment when he says her name. ‘Mary’. It gets me every time. Here’s the Risen Lord, who went through the agony of the cross for love of all humanity; the one whose now scarred hands flung stars into space at the dawn of time – simply saying her name. He might look different, but that familiar voice – that particular way he has of saying her name – proves it. He’s alive! And all she wants to do is cling to him.
But, this isn’t the time to be lingering at the tomb. It’s a time to rush out and to share the Good News – to tell the others what’s happened. Mary is stepping into a new phase in her calling as a friend and follower of Jesus: the faithful, loving, heart-led Mary becomes Mary the Apostle, bearing the ‘Word of risen hope and new life’ to the other disciples. This moment of resurrection is also, for her, a moment of new creation and transformation: a moment when her gifts of love and faithfulness are put to a new use by Jesus. Because resurrection is all about new creation – not a bringing back to life, but a stepping into new life.
During Lent we ran a series of sessions on Zoom where we looked at works of art that spoke to us of hope and restoration. At one of these sessions, Julia told us about the Japanese art of Kintsugi – which literally translates as a ‘joining with gold’. Kintsugi practitioners take broken pottery – often tea bowls or saki bowls – and put them back together again using a lacquer called urushi. The very visible join lines are then carefully gilded: this is not about an invisible mend, but about celebrating the story and the journey that the bowl has been on; about making whole; about creating a new thing which is useful once more and which has a unique strength and beauty. These bowls have been through a resurrection and – just like Jesus, they have the ‘glorious scars’ to prove it.
And the same can be said of us: we come to God in our brokenness and we are pieced together again, the gold of God’s forgiveness and grace transforming regret and guilt into strength and unique beauty. This is a new creation where we are born into new life.
Someone who understood this was Peter, who we also heard of in our reading from Acts. There he was speaking of forgiveness – of the fresh start and the slate wiped clean – that is offered in Jesus. And he should know. When we last met him, he was weeping bitterly, for the cock had just crowed on Friday morning after he had denied knowing Jesus a third time. Peter’s moment of resurrection came days later on the beach, when Jesus asked him ‘do you love me?’ Jesus, almost painfully, asks him three times, but in so doing, he exorcises those three denials, setting Peter free, softening his sharp edges and making him whole again with the gilded urushi of forgiveness. He then entrusts Peter with spreading the Good News and caring for his flock. Peter’s moment of resurrection is a moment of new creation. His denials could have meant an end to his relationship with Jesus, but instead, this moment of resurrection marks a new beginning. Not so much ‘it is finished’ as ‘it is newly begun.’
Because it seems to me, that that’s what resurrection is. There is, of course, the joyous BOOM! of the Resurrection of Jesus, on that first day of the week, two thousand and twenty-two years ago, but since then, there have been countless, countless individual resurrections. Countless moments of being released into new life: of new creation. Moments of grace and forgiveness; moments of sacrament; moments of calling and moments of responding to those calls.
We are Easter people, called to live resurrection lives. And that’s not going to be a one-off thing. We may well experience important moments of resurrection when we are particularly released into new things, but if we keep ourselves alive to God working in our lives, we’ll notice many of those moments where we encounter Jesus; where we are encouraged anew; where we are healed with gilded urushi and our brokenness is transformed into a new creation; or where Jesus simply speaks our name in that particular way he has… And each of those resurrections deserves its own Alleluia!
One last thought. As I pondered on this morning’s story of Mary and Jesus, an image formed of her, once she’d returned to the disciples to share the good news, taking herself out into the morning sun, for a moment alone, to process all that had happened to her. It struck me that there’s a soundtrack to this – if you can imagine Mary sounding a little like Nina Simone:
Birds flying high – you know how I feel. Sun in the sky – you know how I feel. Breeze driftin’ on by – you know how I feel.
It’s a new dawn, It’s a new day, It’s a new life for me… And I’m feeling good!
Go out and live His risen life!
Alleluia!
Piers Northam sermon preached on Easter Day in St. Mary-at Latton.
The latest photo-Tweet from my friend Joyce lives up to its caption.
The quotation from Maya Angelou speaks of how we remember people for the way they make us feel.We all have people we turn to when we need a shoulder to cry on, an ear that will listen or someone who can hug us. Hopefully, we are such a person for others. In this case, the lovely little Robin makes me feel happy. This little creature is uplifting and in giving pleasure expects nothing in return.
It reminded me of story by Sheila Cassidy in her book Good Friday People.
Sheila writes on aspects of Christian spirituality and is also a doctor. She was involved in the hospice movement. In the 1970’s she was practicing medicine in Chile at a time of political unrest. Because she treated a leading figure of the opposition, she was arrested and tortured. As a result of her imprisonment she was keenly associated with Human rights and prevention of abuse.
The story which came to mind on receiving Joyce’s tweet is from when she was being a doctor in more calmer times. In her book Good Friday People she wrote of a seemingly insignificant incident but it had huge implications. One day she was working on a boring job and a friend popped in to see her. This is how she described it.
He loitered around for nearly an hour, perched on the edge of the table, smoking a cigarette and talking occasionally of nothing in particular. After he left, she found herself filled with a special joy because her friend had deliberately wasted an hour with her. She wrote that “we were not discussing something of importance or that I needed consoling; it was a pure and unsolicited gift of time.
She reflected that if we think about it, for busy people, time is often the most precious gift they have to give. Doctors, priests, those who counsel will always ‘spend’ time with those in need. They may sit up all night with someone who is distressed; they may pass long hours in listening to problems or giving advice; but it is all time deliberately spent.
People who spend or waste time in this sort of way are those who understand the difference between what is urgent and what is important, or, to put it another way, they understand something that is key to our relationships– that real busyness is about being busy for others rather than being so busy that we shut them out. Having time for others is, as Sheila Cassidy noted, among the most precious things we can give to them. It is particularly important in this day of instant communication and of a real sense of loneliness in a lot of people to make people feel they matter. I don’t know about you but when I’m talking with someone and their mobile phone rings and they immediately answer it, I feel my importance to them has been somehow diminished.
Our little Robin above reminded me that I need to be attentive to others in a very special way which shows them they matter – a lot! We could even turn our phone off whilst spending time with them. Now there’s a notion!!
“In honour of Earth Week this week, Sister Ruth Johnson of the Sisters of Providence in Indiana, USA shares the poem below that she wrote to reverence Earth. The Sisters are a community of Roman Catholic women religious (vowed sisters).
The Sisters of Providence of St Mary-of-the-woods live out Jesus’ radical Gospel message by dedicating their lives to love, mercy and justice. They collaborate with others to create a more just and hope-filled world through prayer, education, service and advocacy.
Earth Rising.
Sometimes I hear voices rising from the Earth warm words – sounds that resonate and flutter leaves rustling growing green thoughts from the soil
It is alive and clings to us in ways we have forgotten It’s self-giving and “belonging” ring no more as it once did it cries in need of it pleads for us in all the ways it can
When the Earth speaks it speaks in tones for all that grows within and without it springs from well-being it speaks to all who have discovered the words to live by it speaks in a language that only those who have risen to its voice can understand it lives through their response and when they forget their birthright It speaks for itself
[Sister Ruth 22nd April 2022]
# Sister Ruth and her Community have given permission for this poem to be shared with others.
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