Month: December 2024

Tidy up

Fallen trees, Barnsley Wood, Harlow

Declutter your life for Christmas.

Earlier this week, I read a fascinating article in the Guardian Newspaper, about decluttering your home for Christmas.
The premise is that over the Christmas period many people need more space in their homes to accommodate guests – family, friends, even strangers. For some, more space will be needed to store food, even presents in various stages of wrapping.

The writer of the article, Vicky Silverthorn,  is a professional adviser about how to go about decluttering and the article is packed with advice. For example, look into your food cupboards and start to eat what is still in date; If you can’t use it, foodbanks are desperate for donations.
The advice includes what to do with children’s toys that are no longer required. “Always involve the children in making choices after carefully explaining why you are doing this.” suggests Vicky; other advice includes how to donate unwanted stuff to Charity Shops, though not electrical goods; or perhaps to neighbours. Recycling is one option for some items or even selling on Ebay, Etsy etc and donating the proceeds to charity. There is a suggestion, too, that when giving presents to others, “Encourage the gift of experiences rather than stuff,” says Silverthorn. i.e, theatre, restaurant, cinema tokens or days out to special places.

Behind the advice is, of course, about how to tidy your life and the way you live. Christmas is, to use the well-oiled slogan, a time ‘for giving’ more than a time for ‘getting’. Maybe some act of de-cluttering will foster a more generous and orderly life.
So that got me thinking.
What about spiritual de-cluttering? Not of our homes, but of ourselves.

I’ve jotted down a few things to get the ball rolling.
One of the first things I’d like to throw out is prejudice. That really does clutter up generosity and acceptance of people who are different to oneself;  Judgement follows quickly behind this. We are so quick to pass opinion on matters we often know little about.  For example, the way people use social media to denigrate others often using the most intemperate language (not to mention atrocious spelling!). Another thing to get rid of are fixed, rigid beliefs, not least when it comes to using and often abusing Scripture. The Bible can prove and disprove almost everything.
I remember a group of young people on a vocation conference writing an advert for Bible Reading. …. “Murder, rape, pillage, violence, treachery, vandalism, stealing , drug addiction…..it’s all in the Bible – Don’t Save it for Sunday!
Great fun but it hit the mark.
Don’t throw away the Bible, of course but decide to read and use it intelligently.

A huge thing to get rid of is Negativity. It lurks in corners and piles up like stacks of old newspapers. In fact most newspapers pedal negativity along with television. My physiotherapist said to me yesterday that if I wanted to release stress (declutter it from my person) then stop watching the BBC News. A wise thought!So many things clutter up or spirit such as Gossiping about others and with others. Sometimes gossiping can be holy as an exchange for the purposes of prayer for example but we all know the truth! A long time ago, I heard broadcaster Brian Redhead talk about a group of women slaves in Antioch. On their day off they went to the races and there they had a jolly good gossip ~ about Jesus and the Good News of the Gospel! Gossiping about God (not, please, the Church!) is a wonderful way of giving your spirit a chance to soar, not least because it’s so positive.

Many things in our hearts and souls  need to be binned – unkindness, ridicule of others, bearing grudges, self-centredness, sin, the wrong sort of pride, putting off phoning people or replying to emails.
Don’t forget to look in the cupboard of Good Intentions!  That’s where you’ll find the things you meant to do but which are very close to their sell-by date. Things like spending quality time with people, including loved ones and visiting people who would love to see you ~ and don’t forget, that includes God.
Remember, too, that being with God needs you to be quiet with yourself.

It is not a sin to spend what might seem selfish ~ time for yourself. Spiritual batteries need re-charging, otherwise you will be running on ‘empty’ and then, eventually you might not move at all. That’s known as Spiritual Inertia, which the Psalmists call, the sickness that destroyeth in the noon-day.

You get the idea? De-clutter your soul of everything that gets in the way of the Holy Spirit, who, if you make room, will sweep in with renewed gifts that you can give to others ~ love and kindness, friendship and care and generosity; openness and non-judgemental acceptance;   and just finding space for God, for others and for yourself. The good thing is that you can fill your soul with all these things – and more-and it will never feel cluttered because you will give out from what you receive. It’s called the grace of God and, to use a lovely idea from Archbishop Stephen Cottrell, it is all pre-loved by God. We can be sure of that.

…and that’s a great present to find under the tree of your de-cluttered soul.

[Mr G]

QUIET HEARTS

O Spirit of God,
set at rest the crowded, hurrying, anxious thoughts
within our minds and hearts.
Let the peace and quiet of thy presence
take possession of us.
Help us to rest, to relax,
to become open and receptive to thee.
Thou dost know our inmost spirits,
the hidden unconscious life within us,
the forgotten memories of hurts and fears,
the frustrated desires,
the unresolved tensions and dilemmas.
Cleanse and sweeten the springs of our being,
that freedom, life and love
may flow into both our conscious and hidden life.
Lord, we lie open before thee,
waiting for thy peace,
thy healing,
thy word.

[George Appleton]

By star and candlelight

Candles decorated by children at St Mary-at-Latton.(and below) Photos: Mr G

Every so often, astronomers astound us with yet another discovery in space. 
On December 11th we received news that NASA’s James Webb space telescope has captured an image of what our galaxy was like as it was forming. The telescope, the most powerful ever built, is orbiting in space free from hindrance by the Earth’s atmosphere. This makes its images more pure and more accurate.
The particular image that has excited astronomers shows 10 balls of stars of different colours which has led space scientists to liken it to baubles on a Christmas tree.
The real significance of the image is that it’s the first time it has been possible to witness the stars assembling to form a galaxy which holds clues of how our own galaxy, the Milky Way came into being.
It’s rather good that we have news of our Universe which is positive just when various sections of humanity are trying their hardest to destroy our bit!
Much more will be gleaned from this discovery which continues to add to the knowledge we have of our own universe. In many ways the Universe is a mystery but each new discovery adds to our enlightenment.
Perhaps in that respect it is mirroring God who created the Universe and even found time to create us! God is a mystery who constantly reveals himself to us especially, Christians believe, through Jesus Christ but also through our gifts, knowledge, skills and talents.

Sometimes God’s revelation is accompanied by some celestial event like a bright star. 
Writers in the Bible tell us of many constellations. Individual stars are mentioned. In the Book of Job there is a beautiful conversation between God and Job (in chapter 38) where God asks Job where he was when the Lord laid the foundations of the earth. The writer shows the depth of ancient knowledge when he asks whether Job can bind the chains of Pleiades or loose the cords of Orion. 
The star of Bethlehem referred to in Matthew’s Gospel as the one leading the Magi to the Christ child has also led many scientists into the realms of speculation.  As far as the Bible is concerned this is the star which heralds Christ’s birth.
The theme of light which is signified by such stars is central to Advent because it speaks to us of the expectation of God coming to light up the world with his new presence in Jesus Christ.  This is the Love of God beginning the process of transforming the world with light. 

Not surprisingly, when the Church leaders chose December 25th *** for our celebration of Christmas it was the time in the West at least, when the world is at its darkest.  It was also the time of the pagan Winter festival and early Christians preferred to overlay pagan religion with new Christian meaning. Sweeping pagan practices away would merely drive them underground.  Changing their meaning and adding new depth made for a more permanent and ready acceptance of the, then, new faith. Good missioners always start where people are before helping them into new understanding.
It may well be that the pagan solstice was subjected to a pincer movement because December 13th is the feast of St Lucy whose very name means Light (and from which we get the word lucid – to make clear) 
Lucy was a 4th century Christian who fell foul of an attempt by the Roman Emperor to re-establish worship of the old  gods. She was betrothed to a man who expected a decent dowry. Instead of which she gave her possessions to the poor.  The angry suitor denounced her to the authorities and she was put to death for her faith in 304AD.  Because her martyrdom was in December her festival quickly became associated with Christmas. 

Probably, the main reason why Lucy became associated with Light overcoming darkness is because the final act of torture was that her eyes were gouged out, plunging her into complete darkness physically. Yet the physical darkness was itself overcome by the brightness of her faith. She had within her the love and light of Christ and her enemies couldn’t quench that. That encouraged other Christians facing persecution. The light of her faith pointed believers to Jesus, the one true light who was coming into a darkened world with hope and new life.  Christ Jesus, who in the final book of the Bible is called the Bright Morning Star, fills all our lives with light. That is both the hope and the witness we must bear in a deeply darkened world.

Maybe we can look to the people of Scandinavia who understand more than most about darkness at the heart of Winter. St Lucie’s  day is an important feast not only because of her own overcoming of darkness but because of the physical darkness in Scandinavia at the time of the Winter Solstice ~ the darkest day of the year. In the old Calendar, December 13th, her feast day, was at that time. She became a symbolic example of light conquering darkness. This is why, in Scandinavia, the feast incorporates a celebration of light involving processions in which girls chosen in communities to represent the saint in wearing a crown of candles (possibly battery operated these days!) and accompanied by others including boys known as star boys.
This deserves an article of its own but the underlying reason is that St Lucy was light in a dark place and her faithfulness to God was an example from which others could draw strength and inspiration.
Never is this more needed than today!

The night treads heavily
in places unreached by sun,
the shadows brood
in the dark places of our world,
where human deeds are black.
St Lucy comes,
bearing lighted candles,
heralding the light of God,
the Christ-child who comes anew
at Christmas.

Let us be ready to greet Him
with the joyful light of goodness
and of peace.

[adapted by Mr G from a traditional song from Sweden)

*** The Orthodox Church follows a different Calendar and keeps Christmas on January 6th

[Mr G]

Advent Eve at Clothall

Clothall Church (St Mary) at eventide. Photo Ed. Longstaff

Traditional Advent Wreath Service at Clothall Church, on Advent Eve. A reflection

Bathed in Advent light,
the church pauses… 

Singers arrange their music,
readers shuffle papers,
pray-ers clear their thoughts. 

The congregation settles – 
some, perhaps looking forward
to mulled wine, 
yet their bodies are warmed
by God’s holy Word;
prayed… 
read… 
sung…

In the East window
the Clothall Birds* compose themselves,
settling wings,
ready to quietly echo the song
about to fill the air, 
kindling expectancy – 
bringing to life once more
the Advent message:
“Come, 
renew us!”

A hope and an intention;
a desire – 
a flame in the hearts 
of those who come, 
seeking once more
the Incarnate Love of God.

Come to us, Lord.
Renew us!

[Mr G. 1st December 2024 ~ Advent Sunday]

For more about the Clothall Birds, See my Blog entry for November 29th, 2020